How it works

From "something is wrong" to "here is what we are dealing with"

EBSA: START HERE does not tell you what is wrong with your child. It organises what you are already seeing into something you can understand, act on and show to other people.

Stage one

Tell us what you are seeing

A guided discovery journey covering mornings, the school day, after school, sleep, learning, sensory experience and relationships. Everything saves as you go, so you can stop at any point and return later. Nothing is compulsory.

  • Plain language, no clinical terminology
  • Around 25 minutes if done in one sitting
  • Optional child's voice section, in their words

Stage two

See your EBSA Map

Your answers are turned into a structured picture: the themes standing out, where each of the three pathways sits, the specific pressure points in the day, and what already seems to help.

  • Every theme shows exactly which answers produced it
  • Contradictions are named, including masking at school
  • Nothing appears without evidence behind it

Stage three

Act, track and build evidence

You get a ranked list of no more than five next steps, ideas school could explore with a reason attached to each, and a school-ready summary you can send before a meeting.

  • What has already been tried is never suggested again
  • Things that made it worse are flagged clearly
  • A summary written in language professionals recognise

The three pathways

Most children sit across more than one pathway at once. The map shows where each one sits rather than forcing your child into a single category.

Anxiety led

Worry, fear and anticipation are shaping how school feels. Anxiety is usually a response to an unmet need rather than the root cause.

Capacity and overload

School is taking more energy than is visible during the day. A child who appears settled in school is not always able to sustain it.

Trauma and relational

Previous experiences, relationships or a sense of safety are contributing to how school currently feels.

What this is not

This is not a diagnosis, a clinical assessment or a substitute for professional support. It does not tell you whether your child is autistic, has ADHD or has an anxiety disorder. Where something we see suggests professional assessment or urgent support may be appropriate, we say so plainly and tell you who to speak to.